A collection of useful ways to see things differently
Common Sense Magic was created by Tim and Sonja Barrie to share the life learnings that have helped us understand people, solve problems, make decisions and navigate life a little more clearly.
Some of these ideas came from things we read, heard or encountered and then applied in our own lives. Others emerged through sheer experience: working, travelling, building businesses, raising a family, making mistakes and paying attention to what happened next.
We are not presenting ourselves as people who have all the answers. We are simply sharing ideas that proved useful to us, in case they help someone else see a familiar situation from a different angle or benefit from experience they have not yet had to acquire for themselves.
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A life lived in more than one place
We were both born in the United Kingdom and moved to the United States in 2000, becoming American citizens a few years later.
We have travelled extensively through Europe, Australia and Asia, as well as across the United States. We spent 20 years living in Utah, have also called California and Texas home, and now live in Michigan.
Every place changes what feels normal. Travel and relocation repeatedly showed us that many things people treat as fixed or obvious are really matters of perspective. That is one of the ideas at the heart of Common Sense Magic.
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Meet Tim, Sonja and GPT
Still travelling, still learning and still collecting useful pieces along the way.
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Tim Barrie
Tim is an entrepreneur and lifelong practical problem-solver. His experience leading teams, building businesses and working with technology has taught him to look for the hidden assumption, the misaligned incentive and the simpler question that changes the answer.
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Sonja Barrie
Sonja brings a creative eye, careful observation and an instinct for what works in everyday life. Her perspective keeps the collection grounded in the human side of ideas: how they affect relationships, choices, resilience and the way a life actually feels.
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GPT, by OpenAI
GPT served as the website’s AI collaborator. Working under Tim and Sonja’s direction, it helped develop and refine the written explanations, research supporting context and sources, structure and build the pages, create the cartoon illustrations, and publish the evolving website. The insights, lived experience, editorial decisions and final approval remain Tim and Sonja’s.
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Useful lessons do not belong only to us. If you have a life learning that changed how you see something, we would be delighted to hear it.
Your submission may inspire a future Magical Insight. We reserve the right to decide whether or not to publish anything submitted. Sending an idea does not guarantee publication.
Sometimes one person’s hard-earned lesson becomes another person’s shortcut.
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